It's ridiculous how we let, how I let, things to do get in the way of the One to thank.
From a different perspective, we actually do know why bad things happen - even to good people. It's not a surprise that the Lord doesn't want all of this vulnerable hurt, but He gave us free will & we chose sin.
Opening up to a God that sees our loveliness in the wilderness. Opening up to some strange unique plan that He is writing before our eyes. A God who loves us even when we blame Him for the wilderness.